Hola People,
I am a new person around, from India, 21 years.... and obviusly the reason that I am around is.. I have a few problems.. serious ones :(

A lot of my folks ask me.. what is your goal in life.. ( DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT THEIRS IS ???) ... and am zapped .. I dont have a goal in life :hopeless: ... is this normal.. I am a normal human being i know.
How can a person have a goal in life :yikes: ?? thats so amazing.. well .. can some one please help me identify what my goal can be ? I would be ever thank full to you

Thanks in advance :tiphat:

PEACE

Welcome to the forum navnit! :)

I suppose before you come up with goals, you need to identify what it is you desire in life. Certainly there are things you desire?

you probably know this already, but if you turn your name around it says tinvan, and it occurred to me (bearing in mind i have an unnatural sense of humour) that perhaps you live in one! no disrespect intended.

ok, so it's not that funny - so back to your problem.

i never had goals for many many years, but in fact the reality was that i did have them, some were disguised as ulterior motives, some were overshadowed by self destructive behaviours, but there was always something further along the chain of life that i wanted to do.

what is your life's purpose? do you have an answer for that?
what would you like to achieve out of your existence from where you stand?
are you lacking anything in life?
do you have any desires?
are you happy, and if so, why?

Hi there navnit, welcome to the forums. :)

Welcome navnit :)

As Tom said, a good place to start is to think of your desires and things you want to do in life, then start making plans towards achieving them. Make sure you are doing things that YOU want to do and not what other people think you should do.... then you have a much better chance of succeeding.

Navit,

Welcome to the forum! Are you still in school? If you are and if you have chosen the field of study you are interested in you don't need to panic, you still have a couple of years to figure out what you want to do. If have to find something that will make you happy, something that that is truly you, and specialize in that.