What are the things you have done for your soul mate or partner to show your love, understanding ,apprciation , comitment to your relationship or just to show them how much you are in love with them

100% attention.

Listening and trying to feel. Not solving.

At least that is the goal!

100% attention.

Listening and trying to feel. Not solving.

At least that is the goal!

Good Mate i like that

Still doing the "CD's" mate, takes a while!! Will bring Friday. We need a plan. High quality pub late arvo?? Have a feed and a brew and a long chat?

Still doing the "CD's" mate, takes a while!! Will bring Friday. We need a plan. High quality pub late arvo?? Have a feed and a brew and a long chat?

Sounding good to me
Let me know on msn what ya thinking?
This pub is it the one you mentioned last time with the poles????

Pubs and poles.....Sounds like a blokey thing going on!!!

Things I have done recently......sent my man weekly and mid week parcels, cards and things to open on certain dates whilst I was away on a 4 week holiday to a very remote part of the world. Picked very special notes, sayings, was creative with wording, put in a few bunnings vouchers, gifts for his kids and him to play with and just lots and messges and notes of love!

This totally threw him and blew his mind, for a woman and his partner to do this! He is totally worth it and it was done so he would not miss me as much whilst I was away totally uncontactable at all!

Looking forward to being in his arms again in 9 days!!! Cannot wait the anticpation is driving me nuts in more ways then one!!!

Many other things have been done, will be done and these are purely all for him!!!! Purrrrrrr............................:lildevil: :yup:

Got her gifts and flowers. Took her out on dinner.
Helped her with everything that she ever wanted.
Always called to check on her.. Almost never told her "No" about something.
Problem is... She sees (and other girls agree) that I'm not romantic.

I guess no one will ever understand women. Sometimes I think that even THEY cannot understand one another :P

Sometimes its about how your partner receives your messages. Are you familiar with VAK learning styles? Some people need to hear, some need to see and some need to feel. How you demonstrate your feelings to your partner depends on the modality in which that person operates. You could be showering your partner with flowers, diamonds and trips around the world when all she really wants is to hear you say "I love you". Likewise you could be telling your partner til your blue in the face when just the touch of your hand would send her over the moon. Might be that a long heart-felt letter or notes left in purses and on pillows would make her melt. Or it could be a combination of those things. Find out what she responds to. Use that as your guide.

Guess that's the long way of saying what Cog said - Listen.

SherbO, there's romance and there's being a pussy. Fraid your actions AS STATED signify a lot of the latter. Fine to buy flowers and be there for your woman, but never saying "no"??? Calling ALL the time??

FFS mate have you misplaced your balls?

"Way of the superior man" David Dieda. Highly recommend a read SherbO. I am reading it yet again, and will continue to do so till it is my daily program.
( again heads up to Zenful ):rulz:

Sometimes its about how your partner receives your messages. Are you familiar with VAK learning styles? Some people need to hear, some need to see and some need to feel. How you demonstrate your feelings to your partner depends on the modality in which that person operates. You could be showering your partner with flowers, diamonds and trips around the world when all she really wants is to hear you say "I love you". Likewise you could be telling your partner til your blue in the face when just the touch of your hand would send her over the moon. Might be that a long heart-felt letter or notes left in purses and on pillows would make her melt. Or it could be a combination of those things. Find out what she responds to. Use that as your guide.

Guess that's the long way of saying what Cog said - Listen.

Agree it DEFINATELY isn't purely about gifts....before we split, bought my Ex her dream PT cruiser... and she didn't talk to me for a week!! Needless to say I was confused!!!!! I should have saved the $30k and bought the book above instead.

Pubs and poles.....Sounds like a blokey thing going on!!!

Things I have done recently......sent my man weekly and mid week parcels, cards and things to open on certain dates whilst I was away on a 4 week holiday to a very remote part of the world. Picked very special notes, sayings, was creative with wording, put in a few bunnings vouchers, gifts for his kids and him to play with and just lots and messges and notes of love!

This totally threw him and blew his mind, for a woman and his partner to do this! He is totally worth it and it was done so he would not miss me as much whilst I was away totally uncontactable at all!

Looking forward to being in his arms again in 9 days!!! Cannot wait the anticpation is driving me nuts in more ways then one!!!

Many other things have been done, will be done and these are purely all for him!!!! Purrrrrrr............................:lildevil: :yup:


Wow Diva, he sounds like a lucky guy. Good for you!!

Agree it DEFINATELY isn't purely about gifts....before we split, bought my Ex her dream PT cruiser... and she didn't talk to me for a week!! Needless to say I was confused!!!!! I should have saved the $30k and bought the book above instead.

Damn he is a lucky man you make sure you keep him in check and he does the same for you....wish i had someone do that kinda thing for me who knows maybe one day

Wow Diva, he sounds like a lucky guy. Good for you!!

Why do I get a strange feeling you know the guy she's talking about?;)

Agree it DEFINATELY isn't purely about gifts....before we split, bought my Ex her dream PT cruiser... and she didn't talk to me for a week!! Needless to say I was confused!!!!! I should have saved the $30k and bought the book above instead.

I feel for you. What a drag.

Damn he is a lucky man you make sure you keep him in check and he does the same for you....wish i had someone do that kinda thing for me who knows maybe one dayDo you have that on your Ideal She list?

Have You CREATED an Ideal She list?

Do you have that on your Ideal She list?

Have You CREATED an Ideal She list?

I wonder how many of us have actually taken the time to do this (and have the courage to not compromise it). My feeling is if we did, there'd be a lot less to discuss here. Just a gut feeling...I could be wrong.

New thread maybe???

Sometimes its about how your partner receives your messages. Are you familiar with VAK learning styles? Some people need to hear, some need to see and some need to feel. How you demonstrate your feelings to your partner depends on the modality in which that person operates. You could be showering your partner with flowers, diamonds and trips around the world when all she really wants is to hear you say "I love you". Likewise you could be telling your partner til your blue in the face when just the touch of your hand would send her over the moon. Might be that a long heart-felt letter or notes left in purses and on pillows would make her melt. Or it could be a combination of those things. Find out what she responds to. Use that as your guide.

Guess that's the long way of saying what Cog said - Listen. or See. mebe even Feel.

or See. mebe even Feel.

I see that you understand!

I see that you understand!
I feel that she heard me!

cogdoc: Well it wasn't exactly like I said, maybe my description wasn't really accurate. But hell yeah I WAS being nice.
From now on, no more Mr. Nice guy (except when I'm getting something back). :D

Why do I get a strange feeling you know the guy she's talking about?;)

Hey MidasGirl,

I am with you on this one! :yup:
Hmmmm.....been keeping my eye on this for a while now!! ;) LOL!!