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MantaRayz
03-16-2007, 03:37 AM
From Jeffery Davis 1999 ~ EnJoy!



The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it's the
quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it's
the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first
few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.

A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the garage with a steaming cup
of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began
as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that
life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it:

I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio
in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I
came across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a
golden voice. You know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the
broadcasting business. He was telling whom-ever he was talking with
something about "a thousand marbles." I was intrigued and stopped to
listen to what he had to say

"Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm sure
they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away from home and
your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to
work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. It's too bad you
missed your daughter's "dance recital" he continued. "Let me tell you
something that has helped me k eep my own priorities." And that's when
he began to explain his theory of a "thousand marbles."

"You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average
person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some
live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.

"Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is
the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire
lifetime. Now, stick with me, Tom, I'm getting to the important part.

It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in
any detail", he went on, "and by that time I had lived through over
twenty-eight hundred Saturdays." "I got to thinking that if I lived to
be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy. So
I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended
up having to visit three toy stores to round up 1000 marbles. I took
them home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right
here in the shack next to my gear."

"Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it
away. I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on
the really important things in life.

There is nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to
help get your priorities str aight."

"Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you and take
my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last
marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next
Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing
we can all use is a little more time."

"It was nice to meet you Tom, I hope you spend more time with your
family, and I hope to meet you again here on the band. This is a 75
Year old Man, K9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!"

You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed
off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to work
on the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few
hams to work on the next club newsletter.

Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. "C'mon honey,
I'm taking you and the kids to breakfast." "What brought this on?" she
asked with a smile. "Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long time
since we spent a Saturday together with the kids. And hey, can we stop
at a toy store while we're out? I need to buy some marbles.

.

MantaRayz
03-16-2007, 05:01 AM
This story is not meant to say you will live only until the age of 75. I think you'll live far beyond that. And because you're going to live, I recommend that you LIVE! So you might want to take a few moments to consider when your last marble is going to fly, and you might want to consider where and how that will be! Don't think in terms of the actuary tables most are accustomed to live their lives by. Those are nothing more than statistics of death, not notices of Life. Live YOUR Life on YOUR Terms, and do so with Gusto and Verve and Effervescence.


I've just invested a little time in looking at my 2,752 past Saturdays, and the 2,976 Saturdays yet to be. I saw where and how my last marble is going, and it feels REAL Good! it's a Beautiful Warm Sunny Day in June 2064, with Friends and Family around. just about 11:22am. The last marble is tossed into the River that flows around InnoShire. One more set of ripples ever-expanding into the World.

39,250 EveryDays
5,728 Saturdays
110 Years
1 Life


HaiYaiYah!





Don't doodle your life ..... Design Your Life.

.

MantaRayz
03-16-2007, 05:04 AM
Do You find you now need several thousand Marbles (http://www.megaglass.com/newrounds.html)?

GR8FL2BME
03-16-2007, 05:49 AM
Live YOUR Life on YOUR Terms, and do so with Gusto and Verve and Effervescence.

Strangely, I'm now hearing Robin Leach's voice in my head, saying,

"Champagne Wishes and Caviar Dreams..."

For me, it'd be "Champagne Wishes and Chocolate-Dipped Strawberry Dreams"

Great thread, MantaRayz! :hug:

mleighp1
03-16-2007, 10:03 AM
Very good stuff.

Reminds me of something my mother pointed out to me several years ago. At that time, I saw her about once a year. She said she got to thinking one day and realized that if she lived to be 75, she would only see me about 25 more times ever.

When she said that, I felt like I'd been punched in the gut and I felt the floor fall out from underneath me. It hit me like a ton of bricks. I started making it a point to see her more often, but even with seeing her two or three times a year now, I'm still aware of how precious each visit is and its really transformed our relationship. We are a lot closer now.

Cat Lover
03-16-2007, 02:04 PM
I read that story many years ago too. It shows us the truth of our own mortality. After my Grandmother died, in her basement I found a glass jar full of my dad's old glass marbles he had played with as a kid. My dad was always a fussy kid. Always kept everything of his in pristine shape. My dad had died 20 years before my Grandmother. I packed up the glass jar of marbles and put them into a box of things I was keeping.

I used to say I felt I had "lost my marbles" a lot. Then one day I was unpacking some boxes, and came across that jar full of marbles. I laughed out loud and said to myself "Well I finally found my marbles!" So I keep that jar of marbles in my office by my computer, not to count down time, but to remind myself of something else. That you can change your mindset at any time!

I also have hundreds of glass colored stones or marbles spread through out the rock gardens in my yard and in my planters. The sun catches them and shines through them. I feel at peace in my back yard and know indeed, I do have all my marbles! :)

MantaRayz
03-16-2007, 03:32 PM
I used to say I felt I had "lost my marbles" a lot. Then one day I was unpacking some boxes, and came across that jar full of marbles. I laughed out loud and said to myself "Well I finally found my marbles!" So I keep that jar of marbles in my office by my computer, not to count down time, but to remind myself of something else. That you can change your mindset at any time!

I also have hundreds of glass colored stones or marbles spread through out the rock gardens in my yard and in my planters. The sun catches them and shines through them. I feel at peace in my back yard and know indeed, I do have all my marbles! :) I'll remind you of that should you try to use that "blond" excuse again.

Cat Lover
03-16-2007, 04:04 PM
I'll remind you of that should you try to use that "blond" excuse again.

LOL....Hey I am a BLONDE and it IS a good excuse some days! LOL... :p

There is a difference between having a blonde moment, and feeling like you have lost all your marbles totally - trust me! One is a symbol of having a bad moment. The other is a symbol of having no sanity! :biglaugh:

MantaRayz
03-16-2007, 04:09 PM
LOL....Hey I am a BLONDE and it IS a good excuse some days! LOL... :p

There is a difference between having a blonde moment, and feeling like you have lost all your marbles totally - trust me! One is a symbol of having a bad moment. The other is a symbol of having no sanity! :biglaugh:and BOTH are language patterns and symbols that MANY Blonds choose not to use.


just sayin' .....

Cat Lover
03-16-2007, 04:19 PM
and BOTH are language patterns and symbols that MANY Blonds choose not to use.


just sayin' .....

Well I'm jes sayin that one also needs to have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at ones self too!

Like using a drill in reverse and wondering why it was taking me so long to drill a few holes! :biglaugh: Doesn't mean I can't say I was having a blonde moment while drilling. Doesn't mean I didn't learn from it. Doesn't mean I can't laugh about it.... Jes sayin! ;)

It does mean I laughed like hell when I found out what I had done wrong. I will never forget that lesson! :rofl:

Paul@Pittsburgh
03-16-2007, 04:30 PM
Nice post Manta...

As old Ma Balls used to tell me - Live Life with No Regrets. Never put off tomorrow what you had a chance to do today, coz tomorrow ain't no certainty.

Paul

SamCrowley
04-11-2007, 11:53 AM
Saturdays are the reason I exist.

This is not a plug, just a reality and perfect for this topic. I started my "Everyday Is Saturday" motivational website (everydayissaturday.com)and speaking business because my daughter used to ask me everyday if tomorrow was Saturday.
I was a stressed out corporate executive who left for work everyday before sunrise and arrived home after sunset.
I said "No More."

Children can have a profound impact on our lives. Mine certainly have.

Sam

KeepGoing
04-21-2007, 10:17 PM
Thanks for the post. It does hit home.

After reading this, I just read KahunaGrande's (John's) post about losing a cousin at age 30. This is so terribly sad. Life can have very unexpected turns and between this post and John's post it really has me thinking about my life and how I need to be more appreciative of the time I have.

My prayers to John and his family.

mleighp1
10-11-2007, 03:47 PM
Bumping this up. I'd forgotten about this awesome gem until this past Saturday it was hands down the prettiest day so far this year. We went to the park with the dog, played frisbee, layed on the grass and looked up at the trees with all the changing leaves and the bright blue sky above. It was a beautiful, warm, sunny fall day, so colorful (colourful for Chuck). The air was crisp enough for a lightweight sweater but lying in the grass my face felt warm in the bright sun. I thought to myself, "Enjoy this moment, it could possibly be another year until you have it again". It just really made me appreciate it that much more.

MantaRayz
10-12-2007, 02:56 AM
Bumping this up. I'd forgotten about this awesome gem until this past Saturday it was hands down the prettiest day so far this year. We went to the park with the dog, played frisbee, layed on the grass and looked up at the trees with all the changing leaves and the bright blue sky above. It was a beautiful, warm, sunny fall day, so colorful (colourful for Chuck). The air was crisp enough for a lightweight sweater but lying in the grass my face felt warm in the bright sun. I thought to myself, "Enjoy this moment, it could possibly be another year until you have it again". It just really made me appreciate it that much more. Blue sky, sunshine
What a day to take a walk in the park
Ice cream, daydream
Till the sky becomes a blanket of stars
What a day for a picnic
Daisies and lots of red balloons
And what a day for holdin' hands
And bein' with you

Lazy day just right for lovin' away
Lazy day made for a strollin' the lane
Baby you and me
(You and me)
And a honey bee
'Neath a shady tree
Lazy day, lazy day,
Lazy day for you and me

Blue sky, sunshine
Flowers bloomin', squirrels sayin' hello
Rowboats, bird notes
People smilin' everywhere that we go
What a day to be together
And what a sky of blue
And what a day for thinkin' right out loud
I love you

Spanky and Our Gang

Chuck D
10-12-2007, 06:16 AM
Good to see you are still alive Manta....

Scooter
10-12-2007, 09:38 AM
Hey old wise friend! :wave:

joanne1216
10-12-2007, 09:40 AM
Hola Manta :wave:

mleighp1
10-12-2007, 10:44 AM
WOW! look who I brought out of the woodwork. :) Good to see you friend!:wave:

MidasGirl
10-12-2007, 10:54 AM
Wow! Yeah, Mantarisen! Missed ya dude!